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When It's
Going Wrong
The free Relationship Emergency Guide. What to do in the next hour, before you say something you can't take back.
You're in the middle of it. Maybe an argument with him. Maybe a message you're about to send. Maybe a silence from him you can't stand any longer.
Most relationships don't end because of one terrible thing. They end because of what happens in moments like this one.
This short guide takes you through seven steps for exactly that moment: how to notice you've entered the danger zone, how to stop before you do damage, how to see the story your feelings are telling you, and how to get clear on the real issue, so that when you talk, he can actually hear you.
Made for the next hour
Seven steps before you say something you can't take back.
It's 12 short pages, made to read on your phone.
Bernhard Thilo is the author of OPEN, KEEP THE LOVE and TRUE LOVE.
Inside
Step 1: Notice the danger zone, and stop
Step 2: Know where you are
Step 3: Check the story you're telling yourself
Step 4: Turn it around
Step 5: See what the storm is doing to you
Step 6: Clear the storm
Step 7: Then, and only then, talk
The 7 steps on one page, to come back to whenever you need them